Soul connections

A lot has been written about soul mates, twin flames, ways they recognize each other, telepathic communication etc. Information galore from various places. And all of them are right, and none is. Because each experience is unique and depends on what the Soul has chosen to experience in this incarnation. It also depends on the level of consciousness development of individual Soul.

We all have a Soul Mate. Actually, we have many, because there is a Soul Group we belong to. These are sparks of light we were created with, were born with when we were young Souls, baby Souls, and when we came from the part of the Universe where we do not have identity and where we all are a part of a larger energy stream. You can call it Cosmic Womb, or Cosmic Mother, or place of pure creation. A young client described it to me like this: ‘Oh, are those that I was born with when I became a Soul? We are sparks of light that are emerging from some plasma.’ She did not have a clue what I was talking about, I told her to go to the womb and she just found herself in this part of the Universe, jumping couple of important steps, but giving me this important information. And truly, it is so. Your Soul Group has the same energy frequency like you, they are the same color and wave signature as you, and have similar, if not the same karmic challenges/tasks like you. And you give each other certain roles for a reason. It can happen that Souls from other groups are there, from your wider circle, which depends on what is your joint task on an upper level, on a Soul level, and the agreements you made, on that level. You also have a study group, or a mission group, whether they are your class (sort of), teachers, or you are theirs. Your study group, or recreational group, is not the same as your Soul group. You can but don’t have to ever meet on earthly plane, or you can meet them in a passing episode when they come to give you a lesson, help, push your development, but it all depends on agreements you made on higher levels (in my case, it is completely opposite, this goes for my Soul group). It is common to meet your primary Soul group in all, or most, earthly and star incarnations, but it can happen that your agreement is different. It might happen that they do not incarnate anymore and you have accepted a challenge, or you had some unfinished business, or you are to enhance development of entire group by accepting heavy missions and experiments (you may be a buffer for the group, because you are teacher Soul or guide in preparation, so you may have more difficult experiences because this enables you to jump couple of development steps). You may be developing a specialty and they are helping you by not being there. Actually, they are always there, but on material plane this looks different as it might be hard to detect them at all times, and even when you do, it is hard because they are not at arms lenght. Maybe you have accepted to be help and support to some of them with an important planetary mission in raising global consciousness. They also might be incarnate, but you are all strategically positioned to influence consciousness raising in a certain region, and with that globally too (locations are always your own choice) and you meet one another when you have to take each other or collective consciousness further in development. This all depends of a Soul plan and agreement.

In our Soul group we can find our parents, siblings, children, close friends, spiritual teachers etc. But not necessarily, sometimes the ones we spend the most time with are not from our primary Soul group and are part of a lesson, or we are part of theirs (if you are teacher Soul those can be your students from another level, and mostly they won’t all be the same level of development). I had clients with various experiences on this topic, and I have learned mostly from their experience, and my own. Mostly, they do not see faces, but feel or sense energies, or colors. This does not mean that they are not incarnate, sometimes clients are not ready to experience them because they had bad experiences with their family members, or they haven’t integrated some parts of themselves that would enable them to open up for their spiritual family and give them peaceful experiences and support. This is sometimes your agreement, because each Soul has a lesson, and they are letting you have your own experiences, so you must let them have theirs too (this is difficult, I know). We can be in a romance with each of those Souls, but there is usually one that we like to play this particular part with. My clients call this: ‘We are always together.’ This is our primary Soul Mate. If there is an incarnation you are not sharing, maybe this particular one, it is because you are finishing something unresolved, or you are both doing this with another Soul. This is how you are taking each other further on your path and development. When such two Souls meet on upper levels, even when they live together on earthly plane, they like to merge in a cosmic dance, a cosmic embrace, like two spirals, or snakes, going upwards, and this is how they heal each other and their relationship. This is how our sessions heals two, not only one (speaking in earthly terms, because in reality you are together and One).

It happens that clients sense their primary Soul Mate, which they do not know in earthly life, and they are told they won’t reunite in this life time, or won’t even meet because they have some more karmic and self-awareness work to do (I call this letting the Love in or coming back to oneself). Some of them are already married with people they play out their karmic patterns with and have to become aware of what is going on first (sometimes this is very clear to therapist, while client needs some time, but in spite of your expectations, we do not interfere in clients development process, nor make suggestions). It takes time and self-love to admit that you came to this position because you were making choices based on fear, interest, comfort zones, dependencies or some other belief, that seemed legitimate from energy and consciousness level you were on at that moment. Maybe that was love at the moment but it turned into something else, friendship, company, business, a habit, codependent relationship, a project. Now you are not on that level of development but it is very hard to make a change that is not comfortable for anyone, but it might be needed so that you can go further and stop reinbursting unhealthy situation with various compromises, compensations, deceits and lies. When you meet your Soul Mate, if you haven’t already, your relationships and choices cannot be the same anymore, they have to be conscious, and this demands honesty with oneself too. This does not mean that there is no karma between Soul Mates but I am talking about conscious relationships (and mostly about advanced Souls, and Twin Flames) where Souls preplanned to consciously choose one another and clear everything before they come together. Because, pure love they channel together , and which they actually are, serves to raise vibration of everyone touched by this love and them, and usually they have a joint mission on that topic. Sometimes it is all about that energy merging, not necessarily about life together. I had clients that did not want to get out of comfort zones of their disfunctional lives and move on with their Soul Mate because they were to scared of change that interferes with the habit. Although their guides were telling them subtly, or very clearly, what they have to do, they did not want to. And nobody interfered with their free will because there is a lesson in it too that they will learn in a different way, more difficult most probably. I had clients that were married to their Soul Mates but they were not making any progress, so they were kicked out of that dream, a bit roughly if you ask them, but their Soul told them it had sent this to them to clean their house (energy house). I had clients that were hurt by their Soul Mate in this or other lives and they wanted to run away from them, but their Soul wanted something else. Do not forget that it is the Soul that has free will and makes decisions, that can seem whimsical and difficult at times, if you are very disconnected from it, so those whims actually have a purpose to connect you to it, because only there you have everything. When you choose consciously, from your Soul, even difficult lessons can be overcame, or changed.

I had clients that won’t meet their Soul Mate, which does not mean they won’t have a partner or love (conditioned though). I had clients whose primary Soul Mates were their mother, father, grandfather, one of their children. Soul Mates always give us unconditional love and support and this was the way you came up with together, to help your development because they suffer from a developmental lesson and start working on themselves first, and in this way you are directed to your path. We all influence each other but with Soul Mates it feels more intensely, you can be on different ends of planet, when one of you starts spiritual journey, it is pushing you too, so you might become interested in things that never interested you thus far, or you might have difficulties where you never had them before because what needs to be uncovered comes to the surface. Once you meet, if you haven’t so far, it will feel as if you were catapulted with this energy in some new Universes and Galaxies, a lot more than anyone else that comes to contact with this energy too. If you think you are in a relationship with your Soul Mate, and while you work on yourself this person starts to pull away further and further, instead of coming closer, this is not your Soul Mate, it is karmic pattern, a lesson. Even with your Soul Mate you can experience temporarily pull away and disconnects, because your are integrating new energy, the relationship can be modified also, but those energy connections can never be broken. If one of you digs deep, and the other one refuses to be moved with this energy, the relationship might end because there is disharmony and it is not satisfying anymore. These are all Soul agreement variations. Soul Mates are here to help one another to connect to ones own Soul, and take each other home, as my clients tell me. Home is wholeness of your own Soul. Because you come from a larger Soul, you only decided to have this experience in duality, playing out the script you wrote for yourself, that you needed for certain reasons, and in order to return to oneself. Your Soul Mate is bringing you back to yourself, helping you to remember who you really are on that higher level and it will do anything needed for that. That is, anything you allowed it to do (for reasons known only to Soul). Good news is that those agreements can become conscious and be changed on this level too.

Twin Flame, or Soul Split, Soul Extensions, exist, and carry a little bit more demanding lessons for the Soul, very advanced Soul. Such decisions are made when Soul agrees and in order to speed up learning process, or fulfill a mission, and when it is ready for a lesson in Ones and meeting oneself in another body, without becoming confused and loose identity. You are actually a continuum of same energy, same sphere. Soul is always whole actually, it is not in parts. These are replicas of the same Soul in variations (or at least two) because this enables a Soul to learn faster on this plane, and once they come back to this One sphere they have plenty of experience without having million incarnations body by body. It is very unlikely for these kind of Souls to meet one another on this earthly plane, unless they agree differently for collective consciousness development sake and love embodiment, and enhancing karmic miasmas healing (in oneself and others). We have all heard about Gods, Bodissatvas, that have their form, a principle in male and female appearance and have some purpose in collective consciousness. We all have within ourselves male and female energy (animus and anima) that can be either in conflict or balance. Depending on the quality of energy we are functioning from inside, we connect with a partner of that polarity and vibration. The more we become conscious and heal ourselves, we are closer to our male (or female) Self expressed in material plane. Even when this happens, it does not mean we have finished all our work, because this kind of relationship has to be conscious, because, ideally, it is made of two conscious people that are each others replica in a mirror. We are all each others mirror reflections, but your replica, your mirror, is different. Everything you want, and do not want to see, will be looking at you form those eyes and you will have to deal with your own shortcomings for real. This is you, only of an opposite polarity (this does not mean negative, as in bad). In the sphere of your Soul you are connected with invisible threads that mental mind cannot comprehend and they can never be broken. Not even when you want to. They can become darker, can be stretched, you might not meet each other for a while until this gets cleared, but they will never break. You might dream about each other for years in advance, without knowing who you dream about because on a Soul level we might look differently than here. Once you do meet, you will know each other by a heart connection, it will be pulling you as if there is a magnet in it. If you resist because this person is not what you have imagined, or relationship carries some challenges, it can be heavy on you. Once you do meet, your job of coming back to your Soul has actually only begun. Because you will be feeling everything the other does, if you are afraid, the other one will be too, it will only show it in a different way, that can be painful. And the changes you will have to go through can be painful too. And how will this relationship actually look like will depend on your Soul agreement. Your biggest disconnect to it, that you successfully manage to avoid in all other relationships, might come to surface, and you won’t be able to ignore it without ignoring the very person you are being pulled to by your entire being. You might even manage it, but then you will have to do it all over again, and again, and again. Once you decided to be conscious, Soul will not have an interest of being a parrot anymore, but Creator. In those eyes you will see yourself, the way you really look like on a higher level, you will see your Soul. Love from the Soul is different, it is conscious and non-judgemental, it accepts all and is of different vibration. But one cannot comprehend Love, one has to feel it, as it is beyond the brain...

This does not mean I am telling you to torment yourself and allow all sorts of shit, I am just trying to describe indescribable phenomena. In this kind of relationship one does not have the need to search anymore, so ideally, you won’t have to put up with anything, because the idea is not in torment but patience and respect. What will you allow, and how far will you go, will depend on lessons you carry for each other, and together. Sometimes the accent is on inner wholeness and purpose, not on the relationship. And this depends on your Soul agreement. Because on this level, and in other dimensions, you already are One, and together. The lesson is that there is no separation between spiritual and material world, and this is why it is meant for advanced Soul, to be able to withhold it physically, mentally and spiritually, and share it with others.

To make things a bit more complicated, you can both be completely unconscious, and still live with your Soul Mate, and you might never need to hear about this. Because your path requires something else, and you will have other challenges to guide you along the way.

My experience with clients showed me that Souls love to incarnate on earthly plane, not only because of lessons and experiences, but because of flesh experience. Souls do not have body, senses, sensations, nor brain to decode information. They are conscious and experience themselves and everything in them differently, and only through body and through another become aware of oneself. They love to have senses and experience self like this, because although they are Love, they experience it differently once touched, smelled, felt. Souls are Love, you are Love, but on earthly plane you might not know how to be that because rules of relating are different. This is how they embody Love, give it life, as many of them tell me. Trust me it is always about Love, never about knowledge, nor spiritual power. For my clients this mainly means being in a relationship of hide and seek with their Soul Mate in order to enhance harmony sensations. Passion coming from the heart, form Soul is almost plasmatic and of different vibration than simple lust. It is alive and pulsating, because it is pure Divine Flame, amplified, and it changes them and all around them merely by its shine. It enlightens the world, and it can be felt. They only have to be present without doing anything, everything is somehow amplified, speeded up, livelier. Even anger, because it does not mean you will never have a fight with your Soul Mate, you will only have an intrinsic motivation to resolve it. At least this is what Souls tell me. And I believe them.

So why would you run from your Soul Mates, when we have ears to hear one another, eyes to see one another, hands to touch and embrace, hearts to feel? Oh, what do I know, come, and let’s find out...